I'm in the middle of my 1st game (it's on Regent). I'm 1st in Literacy AND have the #1 city in the top5
... and I'm about to get my face ripped off by the much stronger/bigger Babylonians (Aggressiveness4).
My 1 only source of iron keeps them from cleaning their fangs with me like a toothpick right now. I have NO luxury resources in my area, so I have nothing to trade (techs are equal, gold went to buying techs from Iroquis). The demographics are very humbling for me to look at as most my numbers are between 10th-15th place (I'm playing 14 other civs), especially since I always easily won Emperor on Civ2 (but I haven't played Civ2 for about 3 years... that's the excuse I'm sticking with anyways
). But even tho I know I will probably be the Babylonians toothpick soon I still play... to learn, experience, & yes even die. In dying I learn ways it makes it harder for someone to kill me (which a cheat would never teach me). Not to give anyone a deep hunger, but the strategic possibilities for Civ3 in multiplayer are HUGE.
What I would suggest for you MonarchyMajor is:
1)You could read the Strategy Board if you don't mind someone else telling you what you could have discovered;
2)Do NOT use Republic unless you are isolated on an island from the other civilizations, boats haven't been discovered, there are no barbarians & know how to use it. Atleast until you (and me included) get better at Civ3. These AIs have lots of surprises if you've read other people's prior posts.
3)Try different styles - if being peaceful didn't work try different aggressive ideas. If being scientific didn't work try being gold/trade oriented. Etc. You might be gifted in a style you're not even trying.
4)Why still play? For that orgasmic moment when you see you won.