Yeah i totally agree, the game as it stands now with great MODS like Cradle, MedMod, WAW etc wont ever reach as many people as it could have.
Id say the same for the patch too. Maybe if they held back the mulitiplayer option and then realised a polished version of it on the patch, things would have been much easier, at the time. Or just held back the whole thing, even for a year. I couldve waited.
The thing about why Activision cant cross list with Apolyton im not sure what you mean exactly but there is a link to Apoyton CTP2 section at
http://www.activision.com/games/ctp2
And i dont think its so bad, i mean it was kind of a blessing that CIV3 turned out to be a little bit of a smelly old sock
OK maybe not that bad but ive certainly seen plenty of posts from people turning to ctp2 now civ3 has disappointed somewhat.