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Old August 15, 2002, 19:16   #31
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Gay sex with a friend = bad idea

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Old August 15, 2002, 19:29   #32
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friendship and sex = impossible since it then becomes weird friendship or just sex. Not both?
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Old August 15, 2002, 22:19   #33
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Jeez! Cant take a joke eh? You dont understand how things work at CG, and neither does Asher. Dont take what is said there seriously.
Some jokes aren't funny. Perhaps I'm overly sensitive, perhaps not. But I don't think you could understand the feelings of a gay 18 year old when he's called a "f*ggot." Asher is young and hot-headed, you guys are older and had no excuse.

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Gay sex with a friend = bad idea
If you're not gay, of course it is!

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friendship and sex = impossible since it then becomes weird friendship or just sex. Not both?
It supposedly is possible, some of my friends attest to it. I can't say that, personally, it has ever worked that way for me.

Well, in the end...um, I mean, after all that, nothing happened. I met him at the hotel, we had a couple of drinks, we just gabbed for a bit, etc. Then a friend of his showed up and the three of us had a nice dinner and I went home to a very pissed-off roommate, but that's a totally different story...

EDIT: Oh, and it didn't happen because I just didn't feel right about it once there.

That, and he's also gotten a bit fat...
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Old August 16, 2002, 01:04   #35
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Boris, go for it. Lay down the ground rules like, "This is just for shits and giggles" or "I'm not going to toss the salad". As long as he's not a best friend, boink away. It is possible to be friends with benifits, I know from experience.
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Gay men don't have sex - they have wrestling which has gone a bit too far.
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Old August 16, 2002, 01:09   #37
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Ya just for "shits". Hopefully you arent taking that literally or too heart. I know some gay people do and the thought of consuming feces freaks me out.


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Old August 16, 2002, 03:31   #39
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The last time I had sex with an attractive man, was Monday night. Does this count as a long dry spell?


Boris -- I say you have to TALK with him about what his expectations would be after the sex, and what your expectations will be.
Communication does wonders sometimes.
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Old August 16, 2002, 03:35   #40
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Boris -- I say you have to TALK with him about what his expectations would be after the sex, and what your expectations will be.
Already said it, Fun. Move down the bench, buddy.
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Oh, and last time I got action was Tuesday night.
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Old August 16, 2002, 03:39   #42
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Is that why your right hand is still sore?
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Tuesday afternoon for me...oh and not with a guy...
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No, that's why the back of Alisha's mouth is sore. However, the memories will serve my hand well.
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Is that why your right hand is still sore?


We were alluding to sex with a second person -- not mastrubation.
I guess that would be overly familiar to you though, huh?
Or to all of us for that matter.
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Ah yes, good point Orange. Alisha is a girl.
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Old August 16, 2002, 03:47   #47
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SEX IS A SIN!

I am disgusted by you mother****ers... All of you should be ashamed of yourselves...


and Boris... good you didn't have sex because there's absolutely NO reason why you should have sex with someone who's just a 'friend'... at the very least, it should be someone who you are romantically involved with who you love very much, not some random friend.


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I think sex in general is a bad idea.

leave the women for me. I am a sinner.

But if you really want an answer yes it is a bad idea. But I can't stop you. If sex is that important to you go ahead.

As a person who gets no sex I can say its not all that important. I'm doing just fine without it.

who am I kidding I need to get laid sooo bad, but I don't want to pay for it. It's just not the same .

but sex is not a sin. I hate religion. I still feel guilty by sex and the thoughts I have about it.

Guilt sucks
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Old August 16, 2002, 03:53   #49
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Did I just see that?

damn xpost!
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see what?

I'm still mad about this emotion called guilt. why do we have it?
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Resist the temptation... it's not guilt you are feeling, but the righteousness in your heart... you know deep down you only want to have sex with someone who you love deeply... resist and when the time comes, it will be so much better for you.
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Speaking of Albert's post.
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As CivNation-esque as Alberty's post sounds, it's partly true. I've only had sex with one person, and I was in love and I'm glad I was, or I would regret it.
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That's better, Hobbes...

and before you start alluding to Civnation, note my response to Boris... Civnation wouldnt say that
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It's just the "Sex is Sin" part in capital letters that brought me back to the days of good ol' Civvie.
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Don't you know any liberal socialist chics? I'm not saying the're sluts but they are easy
I know a few, but they are all in relationships or complete idiots (or both...)
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It seemed extreme.

/Edit ... and not what I've been led to expect.

Silly me. I'll watch with my own eyes and make my own mind up.
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Boris - take it from someone who has done stuff with 4 different friends. Unless you don't see or speak to them much, it's a bad idea. Even if you just talk to them online or on the phone it can get awkward.

If you care about your friendship, don't do it. But then again, if you reject his advances that could harm things too...
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Guys, it's OVER. Sheesh.



Seriously, I knew it was not a very good idea, but when one is a horny S.O.B. like I am, the brain can get addled.

We can dispense with the no-sex-outside-of-a-relationship nonsense, as that's already a moot point for me.

Orange: Wooohooo!!!

AH: Nah, all heterosexual sex is rape, remember?

Who is the Sceptor idiot and what tar pit did he crawl out of?

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