Whining about the opposite sex - Page 2

Tiamat · February 17, 2003, 03:15

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Cool girls who are "just one of the guys" except that I want to have sex with them

And this boys and girls is the one you need to watch out for or you will wind up married to them

That would be me. I was one of the cool girls who was just one of the guys in a group of about 6. We did everything together....basketball, motorcycles, lake etc...everything they even called me the jaynenstien (jaynie is real name). Yes stupid I know but the pack leader is the one who I wound up having sex with and now we are married. Go figure.

Ben Kenobi · February 17, 2003, 03:18

Hot but religious fanatic

Is that a thumbs up Sava?

My categories:

Religious fanatic and wants more than a friend.

Religious fanatic and wants to be friends.

Not a religious fanatic.

Asher · February 17, 2003, 03:20

A true mormon.

Dis · February 17, 2003, 03:35

I have just given up on women

And I'm happy as can be

Tattila the Hun · February 17, 2003, 05:38

I know only one type, "uninterested in me".

CerberusIV · February 17, 2003, 06:29

Every potential boyfriend/girlfriend/other basically wants something you have - sex, money, not to be alone, to be seen with you, whatever.

There are two categories.

1 Those to whom you are prepared to give what they are looking for.

2 Those you aren't.

KrazyHorse · February 17, 2003, 06:39

1) Those who I'd sleep with sober
2) Those who I'd sleep with drunk
3) Those who I'd sleep with dead drunk and puking

Ben Kenobi · February 17, 2003, 20:40

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A true mormon.

No, a Mennonite.

*wonders why Asher thinks all religious fanatics are mormons?*

Asher · February 17, 2003, 22:59

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Originally posted by obiwan18

No, a Mennonite.

*wonders why Asher thinks all religious fanatics are mormons?*

I grew up in an area with a very large mormon community.

Mennonite is great too though, but I'm not sure what it's all about? Aren't you going to hell for using a computer?

Ben Kenobi · February 17, 2003, 23:14

Actually you are not far off.

Amish who can't hack the prohibitions against technology jump the fence and become Mennonites. Doctrinally, we are very similar.

I'm actually a more liberal Mennonite, so that would be two steps away from the Amish. The main difference between conservative and liberal Mennonites is that the conservatives require women to wear headscarves, and generally very traditional clothing.

Boris Godunov · February 17, 2003, 23:52

My problem is most of the guys whom I find who want to date are either unattractive to me or so excruciatingly stupid that conversation is agonizing. Then I meet smart, hot guys who don't want to date, just have some no-strings fun. I can deal with that, as at least I'm getting some ****.

The last venture was a cute, smart successful guy who was dynamite in bed but turned out to be a former crack addict (but still occasionally used), a regular pot smoker and was married to a German girl. Well, that was just peachy-keen, yessirree...

Ted Striker · February 17, 2003, 23:55

Sounds like your problem is that you are high on yourself there Boris.

Boris Godunov · February 18, 2003, 00:12

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Originally posted by Ted Striker
Sounds like your problem is that you are high on yourself there Boris.

Yeah. I want a guy who I find attractive, is intelligent and wants to date and isn't a druggie. How picky of me.

Tiamat · February 18, 2003, 00:14

Shame on you Boris....what were you thinking expecting that you could have brains and braun.

Tuberski · February 18, 2003, 00:17

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Originally posted by Asher

I grew up in an area with a very large mormon community.

Mennonite is great too though, but I'm not sure what it's all about? Aren't you going to hell for using a computer?

So did I. I also thought of him as a mormon.

ACK!

Boris Godunov · February 18, 2003, 00:17

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Originally posted by Tiamat
Shame on you Boris....what were you thinking expecting that you could have brains and braun.

I know! I should be ashamed for having respectable standards for myself!

Ted Striker · February 18, 2003, 00:19

I believe the phrase you used was, "so excruciatingly stupid."

Boris Godunov · February 18, 2003, 00:25

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Originally posted by Ted Striker
I believe the phrase you used was, "so excruciatingly stupid."

And you've never met girls who were attractive but very dumb? You've never found it painful to make conversation with someone? Look, if you have nothing in common to talk about and have to force it, conversation will be arduous.

I'm not embarrassed to say I want an intelligent person, and just because a person is good-looking isn't going to be enough for more than a one-night romp.

Asher · February 18, 2003, 00:30

I find it painful to make conversation with most people.

The fact is most people are so incredibly boring but don't realize it.

Ted Striker · February 18, 2003, 00:32

Yes I've met girls that haven't been attracted to but I'm not out to dog them out for being who they are.

Boris Godunov · February 18, 2003, 00:36

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Originally posted by Ted Striker
Yes I've met girls that haven't been attracted to but I'm not out to dog them out for being who they are.

Who's dogging anyone out? I don't go telling people "you're stupid, go away." I am always a very polite person. If it doesn't click, I just say the truth--we don't have much in common, it's just not going to work out.

At any rate, stupidity doesn't just contain itself to mental capacity, it also can mean just plain assholishness. A guy who is somewhat intelligent but then says something, say, racist is going to go into my "stupid" category and be declined a second date.

Tiamat · February 18, 2003, 01:18

See I gotta go with Boris on this one. I spent many many years dating the pretty boys. I have or had a strong effinity to pretty boys with long hair, it was just my thing. Didn't matter if they were smart or not just as long as they looked good. Shallow yes I know. As I said this was a while back.

Then a few years ago I was working somewhere and met a guy. The inital attraction was there because he was good looking and had long hair but the kicker was that he was astoundingly intelligent. It was very strange but I found his intellect and wit more attractive and acting like more of an afrodesiac then his looks every could have been. I was attracted to his brain

I found since that incounter that a person's intelligence holds more for me then any amount of looks ever could.

Beauty fades and when you are sitting on that front porch and gravity has taken it's hold and the hair and teeth are gone......you'd better have a brain under that pretty face or you are gonna be bored out of your mind and praying for death to realease you from the madness

Jon Miller · February 18, 2003, 01:18

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Originally posted by Asher
I find it painful to make conversation with most people.

The fact is most people are so incredibly boring but don't realize it.

I think that most people realise it

they just try to keep it repressed

Jon Miller

Jon Miller · February 18, 2003, 01:22

for me

pretty girls
freindly girls
pretty, freindly girls
pretty, freindly girls who I am beganing to fall for
other females

I am hoping that there is a
pretty, freindly girls who I am beganing to fall for and who are falling for me
but I haven't found any yet

Jon Miller

Urban Ranger · February 18, 2003, 01:22

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Originally posted by Asher
I find it painful to make conversation with most people.

The fact is most people are so incredibly boring but don't realize it.

This is deliciously ironic.

Asher · February 18, 2003, 01:24

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Originally posted by Urban Ranger
This is deliciously ironic.

I don't see why?
I'm the first to admit I'm perhaps one of the most boring people on the planet.

Urban Ranger · February 18, 2003, 01:24

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Originally posted by Boris Godunov
And you've never met girls who were attractive but very dumb? You've never found it painful to make conversation with someone? Look, if you have nothing in common to talk about and have to force it, conversation will be arduous.

I reckon that they are called "airheads."

Yes, painful will be the apt description to use.

Jon Miller · February 18, 2003, 01:26

am I the only one who doesn't make intelligence a deciding factor in my freindships (nor would I in my relationships?)

there are a lot of great people out there who don't have IQs of 160+

and they have a lot to offer

Jon Miller

Tiamat · February 18, 2003, 01:27

We've all been there. We've all I'm sure met someone and after a while of talking to them we were looking for the nearest window to jump out of or a hammer to knock ourselfs in the head with...anything to get away.

Tiamat · February 18, 2003, 01:29

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Originally posted by Jon Miller
am I the only one who doesn't make intelligence a deciding factor in my freindships (nor would I in my relationships?)

there are a lot of great people out there who don't have IQs of 160+

and they have a lot to offer

Jon Miller

I think your missing the point. That is one of the factors. If you go after someone or go out with them are there not certain things you look for in them. I think Boris was just stating several things that he looks for in a mate s/o and several things he wasn't.

I don't think anyone goes out on purpose and says.....hmmmmm I think I date a druggie idot today. Just doesn't happen like that.