a story about a girl and two roommates - Page 2

MikeH · April 1, 2003, 10:46

Both at the same time on the other hand...

Spec · April 1, 2003, 10:53

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Originally posted by Arrian
That is some ****ed up ****.

What?! I heard that story about 100 times already. This is nothing new.

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Spend some time writing it up properly, and sell it to a TV network for use in a sitcom or TV movie. At least then you might get rich.

Yea.....on the teen channel or something....

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#1 sounds like an *******. Girl sounds... kinda pathetic. You... probably should have been straight-up with her a long time ago, but at this point have blown that. So walk away (says me from the comfort of my keyboard).

#1 is not an assh0le, he's the competitor and usual winner. #2 is just jealous....how should we know that that's the real story. I bet #2 doesn't have succes with girls so he blames it all on them...

There is a famous rule you know, NEVER f**k with your roomate.

Spec.

Urban Ranger · April 1, 2003, 11:03

I'd say screw both, not in a sexual sense, mind you.

Since the girl apparently likes being treated like dirt, that means she has a mental problem and you don't deal with that. Roommate gave you the green light and then got upset. Again not somebody I want to deal with.

I have seen men like rommate #1 multiple times in uni. Their girlfriends always ended up finding out the truth

FrustratedPoet · April 1, 2003, 11:11

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Originally posted by Spectator

#1 is not an assh0le, he's the competitor and usual winner.

Yeah, only winners cheat on their girlfriends.

Infidelity is really low. No excuses. Ever.

Spiffor · April 1, 2003, 12:00

Tell #1 about your perspective, and listen to his. He might think very true (and harsh) things, and listening to them isn't an easy effort. Your behaviour in this whole affair wasn't spotless, so you should listen to the critics #1 will tell you. (LTEC! exaggerates IMHO, but it is clear you were motivated by egoism rather than the sheer willingness ot help Girl)

Don't try to have sex with Girl ever again. It won't work anyway, and it can only make the situation messier. If she remains a long time with #1, try to have a regular roommate behaviour when they're around.

And please rewrite your story with more clarity. At the beginning, I thought #1 and Girl were in the seduction process, and not together : "hanging around" doesn't always mean "having sex" in my definition...

Urban Ranger · April 1, 2003, 12:03

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Originally posted by Spectator
#1 is not an assh0le, he's the competitor and usual winner. #2 is just jealous....how should we know that that's the real story. I bet #2 doesn't have succes with girls so he blames it all on them...

I wouldn't call somebody who slimes and lies a winner.

Az · April 1, 2003, 12:13

I think that Spec is #1 compatible.

didn't that incident with the tyre teach you anything?

Spec · April 1, 2003, 13:28

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Originally posted by Azazel
I think that Spec is #1 compatible.

Indeed I am.
Also, I think that #1 is not as much to blame as much as all of you say. We dont know the real story, only HIS point of view. It's easy to dump all the blame on #1 when you are #2.

Dont wonder why he calls himself #2, he probably always is.

Oh, and I dont cheat on the girlfriend I have now nr will I ever. I did with my other girlfriends but that's a whole other story because I never really loved them.

When #1 finds HIS girl, he'll stop cheating.

And it's not cheating if your in an other country, it's just....visiting.

unless you have a kid with the girl in question.

Spec.

Arrian · April 1, 2003, 13:32

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Oh, and I dont cheat on the girlfriend I have now nr will I ever. I did with my other girlfriends but that's a whole other story because I never really loved them.

Oh, in that case, I understand. That's fine. Of course! You didn't love them, so it's ok for you to treat them like **** by cheating on them. You're a veritable paragon of virtue!

ukes:

-Arrian

Az · April 1, 2003, 13:40

:sodomy::rectum:

Jack_www · April 1, 2003, 13:41

THis is just a thought, maybe having a friend who treats women like that is not the best person to be arround and should find anther roomate if that is at all possible. With the gril, I dont know but maybe trying just leaving things be let them go sperate ways.

Spec · April 1, 2003, 13:44

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Originally posted by Arrian

Oh, in that case, I understand. That's fine. Of course! You didn't love them, so it's ok for you to treat them like **** by cheating on them. You're a veritable paragon of virtue!

Now you get it!

Seriously, when your 20 and under, you...well I didn't really gave a shlt. It's all part of experiencing in life. When your in a bar, a bit drunk, and you meet this nice lady and it goes so well that she invites you over to her house afterwards, you know it's not to play some boardgame. So, being drunk, you dont say no, you say, it would be MY pleasure!! Experience is priceless and I'm glad I did.
Now that I have done that I will feel no need to experience things that I never did before. I will probably wont have the "I'M GETTING MARRIED!" crisis that all you virgins or "one girl sex" guys out there will have.

I've been with many girls and I know that what I have now I REALLY care for. I have my proof. I cant even think about cheating on her...to be frank, she's my life.

Spec.

WRangler Rhymer · April 1, 2003, 14:13

Wow this story gives the will to kill back to a killer. Hey man you are a man, and your roomate too. Tell him that the girl is a crazy *****, and that why the hell is he pissed at you for tell the girl what he was doing. He oviously doing don't give a **** about this girl and the ones he is ****ing, so why the **** is he mad at you. If i was is #1 I would not give a crap what you did, i would just thank you for leting me keep an extra girl to ****. Hey can I mediate this soap, it would be fun for me the problem is not even that bad. No I got it tell him that you just slipped up, because the girl made you feel all weird and say stupid stuff. Hey that should work, or tell him why would he let a girl that loves him stand between two men, that are friends and roommate. If that does not work if you have seniority over the house then tell him to get out if he is going to be like that over something so dumb. See that is why you dont do **** with women like that with a friend. YOU DROP THE *****, too much trouble, but really I hope it goes well and you don't end up on the street with a pissed roommate, and touchy feely girls running after you. Just don't do anything dumb to end up like that. Those girls and their sex can mess you up, so watch out.

Gibsie · April 1, 2003, 14:26

My god, I have never seen so many *'s and #'s in one thread... I need to go lie down.

MattyBoy · April 1, 2003, 19:54

Great story.
Keep 'em coming (sic) connorkrimbo.

Plan Austral · April 1, 2003, 20:27

You should show 1 this thread

connorkimbro · April 2, 2003, 07:20

ahh, to clear a few things up:

a) i'm not in college, and havn't been for a few years now.
b) i was never trying to date "the girl" and am not now. i slept with her once, it was purely a physical thing, and she understood that.
c) girl liked #1 alot, and so after that one time sleeping together, i backed off. it was only after several weeks of him stringing her along, and lying to her, that i told her what a sleeze bag he was. not out of any emotional or physical attempts at getting with her, just out of HER self interests.

LTEC! you really think i'm such a sleeze bag? i was nothing but honest with her. and yes, i DID sleep with her, and not tell #1, but it was only because he said it was OK. if anything, i can be accused of holding back the truth from him, but NOT of lying, to either of them.

Narz · April 2, 2003, 07:42

You know, all this makes me realize, monogomy really ain't so bad... of course the ideal would maybe be two or three or four that were commited to you. I think the Mormons have the right idea

Frankychan · April 2, 2003, 07:46

sounds like you got screwed. It's the chicks fault. You tried hooking up with the girl, she wasn't having it and when you try to help her out, she gets all b****y. I say screw it. You tried to help her out and she shoved it in your face.

She's dumb for not thinking correctly. WHATEVERS!!!

Frankychan · April 2, 2003, 07:48

maybe you're wrong for sleeping with her just to get your rocks off, but if you really wanted to hook up with her...then it's her fault for wigging out.

connorkimbro · April 2, 2003, 08:07

ah, i didn't want to hook up with her. it was purely a physicaly thing, and several (6+) weeks ago at that.

Urban Ranger · April 2, 2003, 09:30

Depends on whether you want to talk to your roommate ever again. If you do, try to explain your story in a week or two.

LTEC! · April 2, 2003, 09:41

It is sleazy behavior when you do your roomates girl no matter how you word it.
Even if she wanted you
Even if he didn't want her
Even if it was just for sex or laughs.

Spec · April 2, 2003, 09:45

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Originally posted by connorkimbro
c) girl liked #1 alot, and so after that one time sleeping together, i backed off. it was only after several weeks of him stringing her along, and lying to her, that i told her what a sleeze bag he was. not out of any emotional or physical attempts at getting with her, just out of HER self interests.

Riiiiiiiiight. You were jealous and wanted to bash him so she would think less of him and more of you. It backfired in your face, live with it.

Spec.

Kaak · April 2, 2003, 11:41

#2 never should have told the girl...bro's before ho's...

MattyBoy · April 3, 2003, 00:21

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ah, i didn't want to hook up with her. it was purely a physicaly thing, and several (6+) weeks ago at that.

So, it's so long ago it doesn't count.
- I love it. Maybe we should stop pursuing Osama as that was nearly 2 years ago.

WRangler Rhymer · April 3, 2003, 00:45

Oh in that case. Is your roommate still mad at you?? Why the hell does he try to work it out with you.

Az · April 3, 2003, 01:11

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It is sleazy behavior when you do your roomates girl no matter how you word it.
Even if she wanted you
Even if he didn't want her
Even if it was just for sex or laughs.

Wow, didn't expect THAT pov from you LTEC.

LTEC! · April 3, 2003, 01:20

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Originally posted by Azazel

Wow, didn't expect THAT pov from you LTEC.

I have many pov's.

Ted Striker · April 3, 2003, 01:23

Your situation is officially ****ed.

Find new friends.

And don't do it again.