LTEC!'s relationship advise corner now open. - Page 2

Lefty Scaevola · April 1, 2003, 23:38

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Originally posted by Alexander's Horse
She told me on Monday when we made up that she loves me but I'm stupid.
What should I do?

Acquire some intelligence.

DanS · April 1, 2003, 23:40

Ted Striker · April 1, 2003, 23:43

Acutally Mrs. MTG, in all seriousness, Dom Pedro could really use your advice:

http://apolyton.net/forums/showthrea...2&pagenumber=2

Ben Kenobi · April 1, 2003, 23:54

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Figure out if religion is important to you.

If yes, hit yourself until it's not.

Jealous Frogger?

KrazyHorse · April 2, 2003, 00:06

Tuberski · April 2, 2003, 00:08

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Originally posted by Lefty Scaevola

Acquire some intelligence.

Quote of the day!

ACK!

Pekka · April 2, 2003, 00:29

LTEC!, Thanks for your answer. That might do the trick, however reasons I'm not going to explain here are kind of in the way. Maybe I'm naive or something, good relationships needs trust, and that means you have to talk about things, but I'm not just comfortable talking about my things with people. I guess I need to take little babie steps to get it better.

Alexander's Horse · April 2, 2003, 00:36

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Originally posted by Pekka
Ok I need some advice with the ladies.

I seem to lack the abilities to maintain relationships. They usually end pretty quick. But they also end on my side too, I tend to end them pretty quickly too. I develop crashes very fast to women, but not any love. I think it's safe to say I haven't ever loved a woman. I fall for some qualitys I start hating next week. I just found them boring too soon. It's not their fault, it's in me. What is it with me? And no, I don't get with women every weekend, but when I do, this always happens.

And if she decides to dump me fast, it's not a problem, it's a relief, even if I feel like I liked her. I tend to push people away from me, even me friends. I don't like to talk about my personal stuff with ANYONE, or my feelings. This includes everyone. I used to talk to my dog, but she's no more and I can't get another pet so I don't know what I should do. Any advices, what's wrong with me?

Stop calling yourself Pekka would be a good start.

Pekka · April 2, 2003, 00:42

Why? That's my real name. ANd if you start pronouncing like peck.....er it means you are doing it very much wrong. It doesn't sound even close to that, and that's why I had problems to find out what was funny about it in the beginning when someone started about it

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MRT144 · April 2, 2003, 00:47

stop chasing your friends ass naked with sausages...

actually, i did a little bit of that except we were hot tubbing and smoking cigars and drinking margaritas

Alexander's Horse · April 2, 2003, 00:48

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Originally posted by Pekka
Why? That's my real name. ANd if you start pronouncing like peck.....er it means you are doing it very much wrong. It doesn't sound even close to that, and that's why I had problems to find out what was funny about it in the beginning when someone started about it

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Sorry mate - you'll find most people pronounce it like that

Frankychan · April 2, 2003, 00:48

LTEC!,

okay, there's this girl in my logic class that I'm jonesing for. (i.e. I want to hook up w/her). It's getting near the end of the semester and I don't know whether I should ask her now or at the end of the semester. I've asked some of my other girl_friends and one said now so I know and the other said at the end cause if she's not interested, both of us will feel weird when we go to class.

What do you recommend?

Pekka · April 2, 2003, 00:49

MRT144,

Wasn't it fun? Soon you'll be carrying bigger objects and running faster.

Alexander's Horse · April 2, 2003, 00:50

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Originally posted by MRT144
we were hot tubbing and smoking cigars and drinking margaritas

obviously not a married couple

Pekka · April 2, 2003, 00:52

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Originally posted by Alexander's Horse

Sorry mate - you'll find most people pronounce it like that

Well at least they will remember me! Though it's not a big problem because if I introduce myself, they will get my name right. I remember we had big troubles finding that one out in SuomiThreadi when I was getting laughed at by someone and we tried to figure out what was so funny in it. It took long time when someone finally figured it out, and even then we were not sure.
It's ok though, you don't know what your names sounds like in our language! In your face!

Ted Striker · April 2, 2003, 00:53

MRT is taking Boddington's spot over.

Alexander's Horse · April 2, 2003, 00:55

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Originally posted by Frankychan
LTEC!,

okay, there's this girl in my logic class that I'm jonesing for. (i.e. I want to hook up w/her). It's getting near the end of the semester and I don't know whether I should ask her now or at the end of the semester. I've asked some of my other girl_friends and one said now so I know and the other said at the end cause if she's not interested, both of us will feel weird when we go to class.

What do you recommend?

A fire extinguisher blast down the shorts?

MRT144 · April 2, 2003, 01:03

it was fun...we didnt chase each other around though...

ted, what do you mean by that? am i all of a sudden in beat with the pulse of conservatives

Pekka · April 2, 2003, 01:07

You just bathed? I'm disappointed at you. Next time you must correct this one. But then again, that's a different game. When you come out of hot sauna, it's fun to run outside, since you're cooling down and steam is flying off you as you chase your buddies who are afraid to get slapped! You were basically playing other game, where you stuff yourself to a small box with another guy, trying to avoid stuffing your feet.. well you get the point

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I can't believe that you still carry this with you, after all the time... you have a good memory.

MRT144 · April 2, 2003, 01:12

its because i have a mental image of 7 foot hairless finns chasing one another round the sauna blazed into my mind. its good though, kind of comforts me about the good nature of the people of europe.

actually we didnt just bathe, we played poker too on a floating table. im addicted to texas hold em...

Pekka · April 2, 2003, 01:18

Well I now have image of you bathing with another guy, laughing when some toes get in the wrong places

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But I guess the thing is that it's fun when you do it, weird when you think about it, or try to imagine it.. but it sure is fun. Actually on a serious note, just running naked is fun, if you can get caught. Try it someday, dare your friends too. Who runs the longest in the nude in town for example. It's kind of hmmm if you try to imagine it, but I'm telling you it's lots of great great fun!

I haven't done that in city though, but in smaller places, usually drunk. What do you call them? Strikers? It's fun.

Ted Striker · April 2, 2003, 01:20

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Originally posted by MRT144
it was fun...we didnt chase each other around though...

ted, what do you mean by that? am i all of a sudden in beat with the pulse of conservatives

Boddington's is a Journeyman Player.

MRT144 · April 2, 2003, 01:21

streakers...

and ive done some streaking at high school but with a gag in my mouth and my friends dressed as mountain men...

MRT144 · April 2, 2003, 01:22

journeyman player? now i found out about the players guild...

loinburger · April 2, 2003, 01:33

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Originally posted by Frogger
Once the answer is no, agree to any religious rite she wants, as long as it doesn't involve physical mutilation or sex with another man.

I'd have no problem converting or whatever so long as her religion isn't hateful or excessively kooky (neither being a problem in this case AFAIK), but she's gotta understand that I'd be converting in word alone (and that might be a big hairy problem for her). It would be great if she were just as apathetic as I am about the whole business, but I don't see a way to broach the subject without seeming too forward or whatever. I'm concerned that she's operating on the assumption that I belong to one of the milder Christian denominations (since I've never said anything to the contrary, and that seems to be the default assumption that most people make in the absence of evidence to the contrary), and would be upset were she to learn otherwise. Or maybe she wouldn't care. Or maybe she's already guessed otherwise. Who knows. :shrugs: