June 21, 2003, 14:33
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There's two things I absolutely cannot stand: people and sunshine.
"No Hugging. No Learning" -- Larry David
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June 21, 2003, 15:05
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Touch 'em? Heck man, I give 'em rectal exams! You can't get more "touchie-feelie" than that!
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June 21, 2003, 18:37
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Isn't it normal to give prior warning of those?
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June 21, 2003, 18:48
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*Puts Laz in a headlock and gives him a noogie.*
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June 21, 2003, 18:50
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I had problems with people intruding my personal space until my last ex worked those issues out a lil bit.
Before then, I couldnt handle people touching me. Even during sex, just bam bam and lets get it over with, please.
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June 21, 2003, 18:50
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*Pinches Ted's nipple*
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June 21, 2003, 18:52
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hey!
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June 21, 2003, 18:55
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Originally posted by Zero
I had problems with people intruding my personal space until my last ex worked those issues out a lil bit.
Before then, I couldnt handle people touching me. Even during sex, just bam bam and lets get it over with, please.
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What's that line from a movie that's out?
"A Player doesn't feel!! That's like a pimp with a health plan!!!"
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June 21, 2003, 18:55
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noogies, armlocks and nipple pinching all reminds me of my brother
I wonder what's he upto now?
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June 21, 2003, 18:58
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Dutch rub
Indian burn
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June 21, 2003, 21:24
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Depends really on the context; a lot of people insist on a handshake at the very least..
If I find it irritating I tell people that I find it irritating. Problem solved.
Some cultures are non-contact, other's are not. There's no real hard and fast rule.
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June 21, 2003, 22:23
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i don't tend to encourage it, but if someone does it to me, i don't mind.
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June 22, 2003, 03:27
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Usually it's just handshakes for me. When I play soccer and someone on my team scores a goal, I'll sometimes pat them on the back (always upper back, as near the shoulder as possible). I've seen Gary Neville and David Beckham kiss each other - that's really not my scene.
I've been hugged hello a few times. I think it shows how insane (conservative?) I am that I think you should only hug someone you really care about.
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June 22, 2003, 03:35
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Originally posted by Big Crunch
I think you may be confusing personal space with living space.
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Nah. Starting for yourself, are are four distances/spaces. I can't remember the names of all of them, but there are "intimate space" (innermost) and social space. The distances vary from place to place. In a densely packed place such as Hong Kong, all the spaces are squeezed together. On the other hand, in Wyoming, a person's social space might be a couple of kilometres.
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June 22, 2003, 03:40
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I thought social space was always about 1-2 metres.
That's what somebody told me, anyway.
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June 22, 2003, 08:57
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Originally posted by Boris Godunov
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Hey! You stop that! Don't make me glove up!!!
............oh wait, you're the wrong guy to threaten with that.
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June 22, 2003, 14:29
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June 22, 2003, 14:34
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im also claustrophobic, so that prolly played a role with why I hate people being near me.
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June 22, 2003, 14:43
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Originally posted by Dr Strangelove
............oh wait, you're the wrong guy to threaten with that.
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Sorry, middle-aged married men aren't exactly high on my list!
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June 22, 2003, 15:09
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I like women touching me, I don't particularly care for men touching me aside from a pat on the back or shoulder.
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June 22, 2003, 15:42
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Sorry, middle-aged married men aren't exactly high on my list!
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But I thought homosexuals enjoyed the corruption of the innocent!
All right, so middle-aged married men probably aren't that innocent, big deeeeeaaaaal...
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June 22, 2003, 16:15
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If they're young attractive women, they can touch whutever the hell they want.
Otherwise, no, I hate people touching me and I try to surround myself with cripples and amputees.
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June 23, 2003, 08:33
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Originally posted by Eli
She does that to everyone. It's hilarious to watch... unless you're the one who suffers.
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hi ,
well in that case there is only one solution , ........
>>>> get her a boy friend
have a nice day
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June 23, 2003, 10:04
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Yep. Hugs are great! I dunno if it's karma or that golden horseshoe effect, but just about all the ladies in our building give me a hug if they walk by the desk or we pass in the hall. Not that I mind o'course, but I do think that it mystifies some of my male coworkers (well, truthfully, it mystifies me as well, but I'm not about to start complaining!  ).
Guys...eh...aside from the occassional handshake, not much contact at all.
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June 23, 2003, 10:29
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I don't really like being touched
my best freind likes touching, and I feel that touching is more freindly, so I have been trying to touch more and hug more
Jon Miller
(who still usually freezes or pushes away when someone touches him)
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June 23, 2003, 11:20
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I was quite hostile to being touched until shortly before I met my girlfriend. Now, I care much less, even though I still hate being tickled.
I actually enjoy it when people pat me on the shoulder (there's a very touchy girl in the class) even though I am not promoting it / not doing it myself.
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June 23, 2003, 14:55
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I still hate being tickled.
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They say tickling can be a form of sexual release.
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June 23, 2003, 15:01
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Well, I prefer sex than tickling, thank you very much... Fortunately, when tickling happens, sex is near
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June 23, 2003, 15:08
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It has to be done very tactfully and from someone who I know very well (if male, females are quite welcome to cuddle me at will  ). However when done by someone who is not familiar, especially one of these 'go-getters' I am more likely to construe it as an act of condescension which would annoy me greatly...
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June 23, 2003, 15:12
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tickling is considered a form of toture in some countries
or so I've heard
I'm not fond of being tickled. I can't breathe, and my body tenses up.
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