 |
View Poll Results: Is viewing pornography a form of cheating on your girlfriend/boyfriend?
|
|
|
Yes it is
|
   
|
4 |
8.16% |
|
No way
|
  
|
39 |
79.59% |
|
looking lustfully at bananas is cheating
|
  
|
6 |
12.24% |
|
July 24, 2003, 10:41
|
#31
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 07:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Location: Ming on rakastajani
Posts: 7,511
|
How about watching porn with your gf/bf is that OK?
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:43
|
#32
|
|
Emperor
Local Time: 07:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Oct 1999
Posts: 8,515
|
Depends if your girlfriend is so rank that you are ****ing instead of having sex with her.
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:45
|
#33
|
|
Emperor
Local Time: 01:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: mmmm sweet
Posts: 3,041
|
Absolutely not. In fact, porn often acts as a "How to" for couples.
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:46
|
#34
|
|
Emperor
Local Time: 23:12
Local Date: November 1, 2010
Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: Portland, OR
Posts: 4,412
|
Yes, it's cheating.
If you are a ****tard puritan fundie. But then, everything is bad to them.
__________________
Tutto nel mondo è burla
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:48
|
#35
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 07:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Location: Ming on rakastajani
Posts: 7,511
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:50
|
#36
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 00:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Posts: 13,063
|
|
Quote:
|
Originally posted by MikeH
How about watching porn with your gf/bf is that OK?
|
I would prefer not to do it
I would imagine that I would if they wanted to, though
I definitely wouldn't kill a kitten while looking (answer to earlier post)
and as an answer to Sava, while I agree that some couples could use 'how to guides', from watching a decent ammount of porn, it seems doubtful if much can be gained from it
Jon Miller
__________________
Jon Miller-
I AM.CANADIAN
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:52
|
#37
|
|
Emperor
Local Time: 01:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: mmmm sweet
Posts: 3,041
|
|
Quote:
|
|
and as an answer to Sava, while I agree that some couples could use 'how to guides', from watching a decent ammount of porn, it seems doubtful if much can be gained from it
|
You don't get much do you? 
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:53
|
#38
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 00:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Posts: 13,063
|
I don't get any
watch a lot of porn though
Jon Miller
__________________
Jon Miller-
I AM.CANADIAN
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:54
|
#39
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 07:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Location: Ming on rakastajani
Posts: 7,511
|
Well, maybe you could learn a lot if your g/f doesn't know how to take 2 Cheneys in the bum whilst still allowing the camera to get a gynecalogical viewpoint.
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:55
|
#40
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 00:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Posts: 13,063
|
I'm not sure how neccesary that knowledge is
Jon Miller
__________________
Jon Miller-
I AM.CANADIAN
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:56
|
#41
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 07:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Location: Ming on rakastajani
Posts: 7,511
|
I don't need to know how to play computer games but I still enjoy them.
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:58
|
#42
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 00:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Posts: 13,063
|
well, I don't know how great it is for your sexlife for you g/f to "know how to take 2 Cheneys in the bum whilst still allowing the camera to get a gynecalogical viewpoint."
Jon Miller
__________________
Jon Miller-
I AM.CANADIAN
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:58
|
#43
|
|
Emperor
Local Time: 01:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: mmmm sweet
Posts: 3,041
|
|
Quote:
|
|
Well, maybe you could learn a lot if your g/f doesn't know how to take 2 Cheneys in the bum whilst still allowing the camera to get a gynecalogical viewpoint.
|
that's only 1 kind of porn... and there's a difference between all that fetish crap and learning techniques.
But stop dodging the issue... it's not cheating. Plain and simple.
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:59
|
#44
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 07:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Location: Ming on rakastajani
Posts: 7,511
|
Try it.
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 10:59
|
#45
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 00:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Posts: 13,063
|
I admit I haven't
will someone who has speak up?
Jon Miller
__________________
Jon Miller-
I AM.CANADIAN
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:01
|
#46
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 07:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Location: Ming on rakastajani
Posts: 7,511
|
I'm in a very strange mood today.
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:03
|
#47
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 00:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Posts: 13,063
|
hmm
get your G/F to try it
Jon Miller
__________________
Jon Miller-
I AM.CANADIAN
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:04
|
#48
|
|
Emperor
Local Time: 01:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: mmmm sweet
Posts: 3,041
|
I had an encounter with two girls before... but it wasn't all that exciting. I was 19 and visiting a friend at college. I went with a large group of people, including a girl who would later become my GF for a time, but we were not yet together. Basically, I found myself in a dorm room with her and a girl who lived on that floor. We were all a little drunk (although I was probably the most sober), and ended up fooling around... no penetration because we didn't have any condoms... but there was definite sexual contact (of the Clinton variety ). I'm still holding out for a real three-way session. My current GF is open to the idea (EDIT: with another girl), but we haven't actively explored it. If things ever get boring between us, perhaps we'll try it.
As for you guys, I'm not a fan of putting anything of mine in any whole that poo comes out of... 
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:04
|
#49
|
|
Emperor
Local Time: 02:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Jul 1999
Posts: 5,605
|
Where am I gonna get a second Cheney? **** those tricks.
__________________
"For just twenty cents a day, we'll moisten your dreams with man urine." -Space Ghost
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:06
|
#50
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 00:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Posts: 13,063
|
I agree
Jon Miller
__________________
Jon Miller-
I AM.CANADIAN
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:09
|
#51
|
|
Emperor
Local Time: 02:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Jul 1999
Posts: 5,605
|
|
Quote:
|
Originally posted by Sava
I'm still holding out for a real three-way session
|
A friend of mine had one of those, and said that it wasn't really anything special -- he's only got one Cheney to go around, after all, so one of the girls eventually got bored and left halfway through. You can keep adding quims all you want, but you're never going to pass that single-Cheney limit (without using some radical surgical techniques).
__________________
"For just twenty cents a day, we'll moisten your dreams with man urine." -Space Ghost
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:10
|
#52
|
Local Time: 02:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Dec 1969
Location: on the corner of Peachtree and Peachtree
Posts: 30,698
|
Of course it isn't cheating! Do people fantasize about others? Of course... everyone does, but that isn't cheating. Pornography is basically the same thing (a fantasy aid ). It'd be like saying looking at someone hot in a swimsuit is cheating (because, admit it, you are imagining her naked ).
__________________
“I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
- John 13:34-35 (NRSV)
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:10
|
#53
|
|
Prince
Local Time: 02:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: Picksburgh
Posts: 837
|
Re: Is viewing pornography cheating on your girlfriend/boyfriend?
|
Quote:
|
Originally posted by Dissident
I had heard something today by someone who said that viewing pornography is wrong if you are married, or seriously involved with someone.
In a way that is partially true. You are having feelings towards someone else you should be having towards your wife.
though I can't say I agree. but I have never been married, so I can't say for sure.
|
You can never turn off your sex drive. Regardless of your marital status. It is generally accepted that if you act on these sexual feelings while you are in a committed relationship then THAT is wrong. But having those feelings is not wrong, it is normal.
Pornography is a means for escaping reality. Just like drugs, booze, and Civ3. It is misplaced sexual desires. If you are in a committed relationship and need porn to get excited about your mate or use porn instead of having sex then you might need some help breaking free from porn addiction.
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:11
|
#54
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 07:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Location: Ming on rakastajani
Posts: 7,511
|
Your girlfriend is probably imagining someone else when you are slipping her the purple headed porridge gun anyway.
Not being able to swear just makes me use non-swear word phrases that I think are ruder.
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:11
|
#55
|
|
Emperor
Local Time: 06:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: Mu Mu Land
Posts: 6,570
|
If you told them you wouldn't then, yes, it is...
Eitherwise it's fine
It's lust not love
If you alone need porn then they aren't doing their jobs
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:12
|
#56
|
|
OTF Moderator
Local Time: 07:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: May 1999
Location: Ming on rakastajani
Posts: 7,511
|
Disagree.
Different people have different sex drives. If you have ones that match then you are lucky.
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:18
|
#57
|
|
Emperor
Local Time: 23:12
Local Date: November 1, 2010
Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: Portland, OR
Posts: 4,412
|
|
Quote:
|
Originally posted by loinburger
A friend of mine had one of those, and said that it wasn't really anything special -- he's only got one Cheney to go around, after all, so one of the girls eventually got bored and left halfway through. You can keep adding quims all you want, but you're never going to pass that single-Cheney limit (without using some radical surgical techniques).
|
See, this is why gay 3-ways are da bomb. 3 Cheneys! When will you ever see such a thing in a hetero 3-way? Never! And the more you add, the more Cheneys! There is no Cheney limit!
__________________
Tutto nel mondo è burla
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:20
|
#58
|
|
Emperor
Local Time: 01:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: mmmm sweet
Posts: 3,041
|
Boris: Do you ever have contests to see who can slap the other with his Cheney and leave a distinct Cheney impression on the face?
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:23
|
#59
|
|
Prince
Local Time: 15:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: Smothered in delicious yellow chemical sludge.
Posts: 782
|
I suspect Boris likes having sex in a "closed circle" 
__________________
The enemy cannot push a button if you disable his hand.
|
|
|
|
|
|
July 24, 2003, 11:26
|
#60
|
|
Emperor
Local Time: 01:12
Local Date: November 2, 2010
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: mmmm sweet
Posts: 3,041
|
I want a harem... that's my lot in life.
|
|
|
|
|
Posting Rules
|
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
HTML code is On
|
|
|
All times are GMT -4. The time now is 02:12.
|
|
