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Should i ask Irene on a date?
Here are some of the facts.
1 - We're co-workers. We we work in the same cube farm, but we don't really have to interact as far as the work is concerned.
2 - I'm already looking for work somewhere else (i'm at a dead end there professionaly) and i've started to get offers but... i'd have to move to Montreal.
We've been sending each other signals and we both know what's going on. It's even to the point where i know she's starting to wonder if i'm not just playing her since she's being so open about it. So i have to decide pretty soon whether i make my move or not.
Either i go for it or i tell her that i don't think i'm at the right place in my life for this.
Whaddayathink?
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July 24, 2003, 20:19
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Act on impulse I always say. whaddayathink yourself? Ask her out if you're interested, don't if you don't. It's all very simple (then again i ahve had a few beers tongiht, so everything looks simple...).
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July 24, 2003, 20:19
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July 24, 2003, 20:19
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July 24, 2003, 20:22
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Hell yeah.
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July 24, 2003, 20:22
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Yes.
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July 24, 2003, 20:23
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Act on impulse I always say. whaddayathink yourself? Ask her out if you're interested, don't if you don't. It's all very simple (then again i ahve had a few beers tongiht, so everything looks simple...).
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Oh i am interested! But acting on impulse is pretty much out of the picture methinks... i created a thread on the subject on a game forum.
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July 24, 2003, 20:23
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July 24, 2003, 20:25
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No.
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July 24, 2003, 20:26
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Of course! Worst thing she can say is no... a small price to pay.
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July 24, 2003, 20:26
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You guys just want me to get laid. And thanks by the way. 
But i'll see if i can get a bit more diverse opinions on this.
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July 24, 2003, 20:28
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Of course! Worst thing she can say is no... a small price to pay.
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I don't think she would actually. I guess my questin should have been : Should i start dating Irene? knowing that i might move in a couple of months.
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July 24, 2003, 20:30
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Well, it's different.
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July 24, 2003, 20:30
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well, I guess than there is the "are you prepared to have a long distance relationship?"
if not, tell her if it starts getting serious (deffinitely before sex, also before dating exclusively)
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July 24, 2003, 20:31
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A date?
That's a bit extreme.
Why not just sleep with her?
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July 24, 2003, 20:31
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OK Richelieu, I'll elaborate.
You don't know you are moving. You should tell her that you suspect it.
What's to say you both have a bit of fun in the meantime?
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July 24, 2003, 20:32
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well, I guess than there is the "are you prepared to have a long distance relationship?"
if not, tell her if it starts getting serious (deffinitely before sex, also before dating exclusively)
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I notice that you still favor dating her. OK.
Thanks!
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July 24, 2003, 20:37
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King
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OK Richelieu, I'll elaborate.
You don't know you are moving. You should tell her that you suspect it.
What's to say you both have a bit of fun in the meantime?
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Tempting.
Especially the last part i must say.
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July 24, 2003, 20:39
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Of course! Worst thing she can say is no... a small price to pay.
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Well, she could file a sexual harassment charge against him. 
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July 24, 2003, 20:40
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Glad you dropped by. Whatever i decide, if everything goes south i now have someone to blame.
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July 24, 2003, 20:45
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Dude, as long as she's aware that you're moving, and still wants to, go for it. Worst case scenario: You tell her you're moving, she says no. Oh damn, look at those consequences! 
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July 24, 2003, 20:51
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Dude, as long as she's aware that you're moving, and still wants to, go for it. Worst case scenario: You tell her you're moving, she says no. Oh damn, look at those consequences!
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You are absolutely right. No downside.
How the hell did i manage to complicate things so much that i didn't see this from the start? 
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July 24, 2003, 20:53
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Because you think too much  .
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July 24, 2003, 21:10
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Glad you dropped by. Whatever i decide, if everything goes south i now have someone to blame.
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You are too kind, indeed.
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July 25, 2003, 00:13
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Oh for christ's sake ask the girl out.
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July 25, 2003, 00:53
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I'd say no but since you're leaving there shouldn't be any problems. Of course if you stay then you could end up having to work with an angry ex.
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July 25, 2003, 01:14
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Give me her phone number and I'll ring her for you.
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As someone who has dated at work a few times, I can say, it's fun while it lasts, but if it goes bad it really sucks.
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July 25, 2003, 01:23
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This is a no-brainer if ever there was one 
Gee, what do i do??
A woman is lying naked on my bed, playing with herself! WHAT DO I DO???
Gee, that's a tough one! Root her, for chrissake!!!Women should follow their heart. Men, of course, should follow their penis
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Does she put out?
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