Dating another "race" - Page 5

Bosh · October 1, 2003, 10:20

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Well there seems to be a good number of asian men with a white girl fetish (have heard stories of hagwon bosses who only hire women and then sexually harass them) but for a lot of reasons (including there being a good chunk of guys with an asian girl fetish) male whities outnumber female whities by a good margin and a lot of the white girls are here with their boyfriends. Well I guess there's always the russian strippers (who wouldn't be here in such numbers if it wasn't for a pretty widespread bit of white girl fetish)...

i suppose things are a bit different over there. here, all the asian guys tend to stick to the party, er, family line, and tend to only date other asians, unless they're rebellious/fully americanized.

i'm the latter.

Well you most get the "family line" types here but it doesn't take many exceptions for the number of Koeran guys who want white girls to WAY WAY outnumber the number of white girls here.

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surely can't be worse than the dog-eaters

Guess what kind of restaurant my gf's mom runs?

Drake Tungsten · October 1, 2003, 10:21

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Guess what kind of restaurant my gf's mom runs?

Az · October 1, 2003, 10:28

Drake Tungsten · October 1, 2003, 10:33

I can't wait to try raw horse. Or maybe even whale!

FrustratedPoet · October 1, 2003, 10:35

Sperm whale?

Drake Tungsten · October 1, 2003, 10:38

I can only hope.

monolith94 · October 1, 2003, 10:44

I've only had girlfriends with darker skin than me. One was hispanic-american, the other was very, very Greek. Hmmm. I've flirted a bunch with asian-american girls, perhaps a bit more than any other race...

I don't think I have 'yellow fever' though - that whole thing strikes me as a bit silly.

Drake Tungsten · October 1, 2003, 10:47

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I don't think I have 'yellow fever' though - that whole thing strikes me as a bit silly.

Yellow fever is a very real and horrible sickness, mono. Unfortunately, I may have caught it. It seems like the only girls I've been attracted to these last two months have been Japanese. What's happened to me?

chequita guevara · October 1, 2003, 10:47

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Redheads are out, then?

I've only met one or two attractive natural reds, so I don't have a problem with that.

Oerdin · October 1, 2003, 10:50

Hell, there are tons of attractive red heads out there. That said I tend to date blondes.

Ben Kenobi · October 1, 2003, 10:52

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Redheads are out, then?

Heck, I've even dyed my hair red on numerous occasions. My girlfriend did it for me last year, and there was enough left over, (her hair was short, ) but she declined.

Alinestra Covelia · October 1, 2003, 11:04

I'll date anybody from any race, but so far I've had the most success with people who are Asian.

This doesn't mean to say that no white or black man could make me happy - and it definitely doesn't mean that I'm happy just because he's Asian. A lot of other cultural, background, historical, character, and even political considerations come into it.

Long and short is, I don't think race is nearly as important as outlook. However, some cultural backgrounds may be more likely to be compatible than others with my own.

If I'm looking for a perfect match, I'd say I'll need a guy who has Asian looks and humility, has a British accent and culture, and is as liberal as the American ideal as far as social thought goes.

It would be great if he plays the piano as well. (Surprisingly, this is not a sexual metaphor.)

Meanwhile, I'll just make do with Mr Boyfriend over here

monolith94 · October 1, 2003, 11:06

I'm a total sucker for redheads, I must admit. Short, natural red hair, and I'm hooked in without reprieve. The most beautiful women I've ever met in my life have been redheads.

Drake Tungsten · October 1, 2003, 11:10

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I'm a total sucker for redheads

Although I prefer long hair.

chequita guevara · October 1, 2003, 11:11

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Originally posted by Drake Tungsten

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I'm a total sucker for redheads

Although I prefer long hair.

I have long hair.

Q Classic · October 1, 2003, 11:13

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Well there seems to be a good number of asian men with a white girl fetish (have heard stories of hagwon bosses who only hire women and then sexually harass them) but for a lot of reasons (including there being a good chunk of guys with an asian girl fetish) male whities outnumber female whities by a good margin and a lot of the white girls are here with their boyfriends. Well I guess there's always the russian strippers (who wouldn't be here in such numbers if it wasn't for a pretty widespread bit of white girl fetish)...

i will also admit that when i first started dating my current gf, i didn't think too much about these racial politics. it wasn't until about a two years into the relationship, after we'd gotten some funny looks (we're in the south~ go fig), that i started to wonder if i myself had bought into the (white + blond) == attractive rubric that seems to plague a lot of minorities.

now, three more years into the relationship after that point, i'm quite certain that i haven't; especially because i was awfully tempted once to stray -- with another asian.

i suppose that's a common occurence with those in ir relationships? or i am i just odd in this respect?

ali, you can make him take piano lessons, i'm sure.

monolith94 · October 1, 2003, 11:22

Che - the way I imagine you, you're a total candidate for Queer Eye on the Straight Guy...

Drake Tungsten · October 1, 2003, 11:25

If only I could be the "queer eye"! Woowoo!

chequita guevara · October 1, 2003, 11:28

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Che - the way I imagine you, you're a total candidate for Queer Eye on the Straight Guy...

Bunnygrrl would be so happy.

chequita guevara · October 1, 2003, 11:31

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i will also admit that when i first started dating my current gf, i didn't think too much about these racial politics

A friend of Bunnygrrl's from high school is an Indonesian. His white girlfriend (whom no one liked) always used to call him her "little china doll."

Another dude she met later had yellow fever bad. His gf was Asian, and his pet name for her was "Chink."

Drake Tungsten · October 1, 2003, 11:32

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His gf was Asian, and his pet name for her was "Chink."

Aww, that's sweet.

Az · October 1, 2003, 11:35

that's disgusting.

Q Classic · October 1, 2003, 11:42

i think you missed the sarcasm there, az.

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A friend of Bunnygrrl's from high school is an Indonesian. His white girlfriend (whom no one liked) always used to call him her "little china doll."

Another dude she met later had yellow fever bad. His gf was Asian, and his pet name for her was "Chink."

thankfully, my gf has never done that. she's colorblind (both in terms of race, and she's red-green), and for that i'm very lucky.

Drake Tungsten · October 1, 2003, 11:51

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i think you missed the sarcasm there, az.

I sure hope so. I remember lacing that post with sarcasm, so I hope it didn't slip off somewhere.

Q Classic · October 1, 2003, 11:54

maybe he was referring not to your post, but to that practice.

yes, that's what i'll believe.

jeez. "chink"? would the kids have been "slopes"?

Az · October 1, 2003, 12:02

Q^3 speaks the truth.

Drake Tungsten · October 1, 2003, 12:03

Or so you claim...

Lancer · October 1, 2003, 17:07

Ben, I've focused on real life, and so there hasn't been as much time. Still, I've managed to drop by now and again, thanks for asking pal.

Che, exactly. Alot of white guys give up on white women. Society, through stuff like the soaps, teach them if they want a thrill, cheat. Also, that love can be evidenced by the price of a diamond or the size of a new car. Since after they get the car and the diamond, they still want a thrill... Anyway, it sickens me. Thank God I'm free of it. My wife is a friend and companion, as well as the love of my life. I'm so glad that the 'war of the sexes' is behind me. Contentious relationships suck. So, yes, so many have given up, many more will.

Lancer · October 1, 2003, 17:14

"It's the parents in law isn't it?"

No Q, my mother in law passed away when Dolores was 20. It was tough for her in that time, alot of sorrow and suffering...hunger. My father in law we brought over, going through the whole INS process once again. Great guy, he sacrificed everything so his kids got a college education. We're great friends, I honor him.

Nice guess though, funny.

Saint Marcus · October 1, 2003, 17:45

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why do asian fetishists disturb me? have you ever stumbled across one of those websites?
surely that question doesn't need a further answer?

how 'bout this? it perpetuates the myth that asian women--and by extension, asians in general--are "weak", demure, quiet, submissive, and/or kinky.
you have the madame butterfly/miss saigon, a submissive whore ready to be used and abused by a strong man, because asian men are deemed to be weak, sexless and neutered.
or you have the dragon lady, a nasty kinky woman who'll do anything and everything to a man, because asians in general are exotic, inscrutable, and dirty heathens unbound by good christian morals.
but hey, maybe i'm reading too much in racial politics into this.

maybe it could be the fact that they're really not treating the girl fairly--how will she ever know if they like her for who she is, or because she's more svelte, 'delicate' (i.e., smaller hips/chest usw.), has less hair, and fits their nastiest erotic fantasies with an exotic beauty?

why wouldn't asian fetishists disturb me?

how do you feel about african men fetishists? you know the stereotypes; dark skinned, muscular, well hung. any worse / less worse than asian fetishists?