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from dictionary dot com
A religion or religious sect generally considered to be extremist or false, with its followers often living in an unconventional manner under the guidance of an authoritarian, charismatic leader.
The followers of such a religion or sect.
forget the extremist and false part (And unconventional manner part)
a cult is a religion or sect under the guidance of a charismatic leader
so catholics are possibly a cult, but most relgions are not
but all religions started out as a a cult
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October 12, 2003, 21:44
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relgion from dictionary dot com
Belief in and reverence for a supernatural power or powers regarded as creator and governor of the universe.
A personal or institutionalized system grounded in such belief and worship
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October 13, 2003, 01:13
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The Pope is right about condoms.
In many poor villages in South East Asia the use of the condom is demonstrated with a banana.
The village women put the condom over the banana every night and they still get pregnant!
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October 13, 2003, 01:48
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You sure? They usually use ping-pong balls AFAIK
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October 13, 2003, 06:20
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I can't really accept sex advice from consecrated virgins.
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October 13, 2003, 07:05
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They must have very sticky underwear when they wake up.
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October 13, 2003, 08:59
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The dictionary definition of "cult" is useless, so I always think of "cult" as meaning "a religion that exists more for the material benefit of its founders or administrators than for the spiritual well-being of its followers," which is, I think, what most of us mean when we say the word. Religions based on a genuine intent to help are not really cults in my estimation, and I would say that a faith can change into a cult and back again. While some say the Catholic church is evil, they strike me as generally concerned with the road to salvation, albeit in a wonky fashion, far different from the supervillian caricature "pornocracy" it became in the middle ages.
Seriously Diss, you need to gain some perspective. How does the poor judgment of certain people condemn, like, a third of the world's population in your eyes? Especially on such a non-canonical issue. If a democratically elected official delivered an off-the-cuff statement to declare, say, that the works of Edgar Allan Poe were evil, would that make democracy as a system intrinsically wrong?
In this situation, the Catholics are in a minority position, have very little sympathy going for them, and react like any cornered animal will, namely by biting at anything in reach. You can tell that this isn't really well-thought out doctrine just by what it says: condoms are wrong because they do not prevent AIDS. Between most married couples there is presumptively little risk of infection, assuming no hanky-panky, and the Church disapproves of all fornication in principle, so all in all it's moot from their POV. Certainly there's no point in treating this as canon law.
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October 13, 2003, 22:22
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This is why condoms are important, if the attitude can be changed so that condoms are the default option for sexual partners, then the number of infections will go down!
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Abstaining until marriage would be much better for reducing infections.
Ali:
Point well taken.
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October 14, 2003, 00:17
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Abstaining until marriage
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So if one never marries (perhaps due to the fact that one thinks this very institution is redundant (not necesairly my view, but plenty of people see it this way) ), one is to stay a virgin forever???
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October 14, 2003, 00:41
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Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
Abstaining until marriage would be much better for reducing infections.
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And while we are at it, we can also tell people that if everyone stopped drinking alcoholic beverages, there will be no more drunk-driving induced auto accidents, public brawls, date rape, and property vandalism related to drunkness.
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October 14, 2003, 07:51
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Because it's right
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October 14, 2003, 07:52
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Well, yes. That's not much of an argument Mr. Fun.
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October 14, 2003, 09:29
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My point is, Dr. Strangelove, is that you're not going to get people to abstain from sex, anymore than you're going to get all drinkers from stopping their consumption of alcoholic drinks, just because sometimes, social ills emerges from alcoholic consumption.
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October 14, 2003, 09:56
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You want to abstain from sex? Simple, get married.
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October 14, 2003, 10:18
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Here's more fuel to the fire...
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Cardinal surprised by reaction over his criticism of condoms
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Vatican City, October 14
A top Vatican cardinal said he was surprised by the reaction over his contention that condoms don't adequately protect against transmitting the virus which causes AIDS.
Last week, the United Nations' health agency strongly contested Cardinal Alfonso Lopez Trujillo's claim, which came in an interview he gave in September.
The Vatican opposes condoms as a way to fight AIDS, saying chastity is the best way to prevent its spread.
"I imagined the subject was better known. Instead, I am surprised with some of the reactions," the prelate, who heads the Pontifical Council for the Family, said in comments on Monday.
"Among my concerns was my intention not to mislead people, especially the youth, by making them think there is safety, where in fact safety is not even proven," the cardinal said.
"I simply wished to remind the public, seconding the opinion of a good number of experts, that when the condom is employed as a contraceptive, it is not totally dependable, and that the cases of pregnancy are not rare. In the case of the AIDS virus, which is around 450 times smaller than the sperm cell, the latex material obviously gives much less security.
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October 15, 2003, 20:36
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So if one never marries (perhaps due to the fact that one thinks this very institution is redundant (not necesairly my view, but plenty of people see it this way) ), one is to stay a virgin forever???
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alva,
If you're a christian, than yes.
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October 16, 2003, 01:44
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You want to abstain from sex? Simple, get married.
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If you're a christian, than yes.
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Not realistic, is it. But then again we are talking 'bout religion...* sigh *
Not to mention it being a pretty poor reason to get married in the first place, ah well, that has never happened I guess
There is absolutely not such a thing as a shotgun wedding, no sir...
No teenagers never eloped (sp?) to get married, nope that never happened either.
Then again, happiness never was a big concern to the church either.
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October 16, 2003, 01:50
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religion has nothing to do with happiness
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I would classify spiritual ease of mind under happiness, at least you could do so.
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October 16, 2003, 02:07
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Not to mention it being a pretty poor reason to get married in the first place, ah well, that has never happened I guess.
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People do this regardless of chastity.
As for happiness, chastity makes life much more simpler, much fewer worries. I am looking forward to when I get married, and I'm glad that I have waited so far.
Why would it feel burdensome if one has never known something else?
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October 16, 2003, 10:47
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That your photo in your sig Alinestra?
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If you mean my avatar, then yes - that's me. I was drunk and playing the brass bedknobs with a hammer and wrench, I think.
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October 20, 2003, 18:55
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Originally posted by MrFun
My point is, Dr. Strangelove, is that you're not going to get people to abstain from sex, anymore than you're going to get all drinkers from stopping their consumption of alcoholic drinks, just because sometimes, social ills emerges from alcoholic consumption.
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But my point is that if you know that you're HIV infected then you should be aware that any sexual contact, even when using a condom, bears the risk of slowly killing your partner.
My next point is that I, as a physician, should be allowed to discuss the facts, i.e., that on average the use of condoms only reduces the risk of transmission by 50% (per episode of contact). I have been told in the past that I shouldn't be permitted to do this and have even been threatened with license revocation because some people consider dispensing such information to be discriminatory.
Having said that I must add that my usual approach as a practitioner is that I advocate the diligent use of condoms. I also feel that I'm entitled to advocate monogamy as the best choice. I have also at times advocated "manual sex" as a viable alternative for couples in which one or more of the partners is HIV infected. (If both partners are infected they still must use caution, because if one develops a drug resistant strain he can pass it to his consort, worsening the other's clinical condition.)
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October 20, 2003, 19:00
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Ok -- if you're specifically talking about just HIV/AIDS patients, then I understand that viewpoint.
But telling those who do not have HIV/AIDS to stop having sex because of the risk, even with condoms, is like . . .
well, I already made an analogy.
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October 20, 2003, 19:10
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Ok -- if you're specifically talking about just HIV/AIDS patients, then I understand that viewpoint.
But telling those who do not have HIV/AIDS to stop having sex because of the risk, even with condoms, is like . . .
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Yes, but in some places, like South Africa about 50% of the sexually active population is infected. In such places, if you treat the whole population as if they had the disease you're only half wrong.
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October 20, 2003, 19:35
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Hey Doc, how effective are condoms as a contraceptive? I'm not talking about a situation where the condom breaks.
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October 20, 2003, 19:37
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You know, There is one good thing about the AIDS epidenic in Africa, it should slow population growth.
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October 20, 2003, 19:39
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oh yes, that's a good thing (not)
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Well, from what I gather, not really. There are still a lot of people in South Africa who think AIDS can be cured by raping a virgin, so...
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October 21, 2003, 14:59
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Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
Shi:
Now I know why I'm so familiar with this material,
From HUMANAE VITAE, written by Pope Paul VI
http://www.ewtn.com/library/ENCYC/P6HUMANA.HTM
I regularly work with this when doing Catholic prolife apologetics.
This is the passage you are thinking of,
15. The Church, on the contrary, does not at all consider illicit the use of those therapeutic means truly necessary to cure diseases of the organism, even if an impediment to procreation, which may be foreseen, should result therefore, provided such impediment is not, for whatever motive, directly willed.[19]
"The Church is coherent with herself when she considers recourse to the infecund periods to be licit, while at the same time condemning, as being always illicit, the use of means directly contrary to fecundation, even if such use is inspired by reasons which may appear honest and serious."
A person with AIDS will not be cured from AIDS through use of a condom.
I'm not trying to be harsh, just trying to point out to an alternative for Catholics to the barrier method of birth control. I have spent a fair amount of time trying to sort this out precisely because of the differences between myself and Denise. I have no problem with barrier methods, while she would prefer to use natural family planning methods.
This ought to be the best option for Catholic couples.
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Interestingly, ultra-orthodox Judaism, which generally does ban all means of birth control (and recourse to infecund periods doesnt work for them, due to purity laws) WILL allow such means in a case where pregnancy could endanger the life of the mother. The ban on birth control is based on the positive command to be fruitful and multiply, and not on any sense that its intrinsically wrong to interfere with nature.
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October 21, 2003, 15:06
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Originally posted by alva
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You want to abstain from sex? Simple, get married.
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If you're a christian, than yes.
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Not realistic, is it. But then again we are talking 'bout religion...* sigh *
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well again Ultra-orthodox judaism which also bans contraception, pre-marital sex, etc DOES encourage early marriage (generally around 18 to 20) and tends to enforce fairly rigid gender seperation on singles (whose marriages are generally arranged) im not Ultra-O , but it does seem a tad more realistic about human nature than the Catholic approach.
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