October 17, 2003, 11:28
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Translating Womanese
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You have something to tell me.
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Any ideas? I'm pretty monumentally bad at this sort of thing.
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October 17, 2003, 11:29
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She thinks she's busted you for something.
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October 17, 2003, 11:30
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Sloww could very well be right.
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October 17, 2003, 11:31
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Or perhaps she wants you to tell her that you love her?
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October 17, 2003, 11:31
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If it's who I think it is remember that in Korea women get married FAST and YOUNG.......(eeek)
In general she may be hinting that you need to say 'I love you' in a more obvious, sappier ,painful,way?
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October 17, 2003, 11:31
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Divorced twice by the same woman? I KNOW I'm right.
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October 17, 2003, 11:32
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How good is her English? Hopefully bad, as this isn't a good sign if she said what she meant to...
edit: Her English can't be worse than mine.
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October 17, 2003, 11:33
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You need to upgrade her with the latest Firaxis patch.
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October 17, 2003, 11:34
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Divourced twice by the same woman...(sniff) that sounds like true love by my families standards.......
Did you really love her (If I may ask)?
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October 17, 2003, 11:35
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**** Firaxis.
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October 17, 2003, 11:45
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She thinks she's busted you for something.
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Don't think so because:
A. Wasn't a suspicious tone of voice.
B. I didn't do anything bust-worthy (except have a cellphone whose ringer got turned off somehow and which has a korean interface that made it impossible to turn it back over a period in which she apparently called me several times).
C. If I did it is impossible for her to bust me if I did anything (due to me being 80 minutes by bus plus some on the subway from where she lives).
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Or perhaps she wants you to tell her that you love her?
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Seems possible.
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If it's who I think it is remember that in Korea women get married FAST and YOUNG.......(eeek)
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It is. Remember the other week when she asked us what half Korean/half white kids look like? That and her absolute faith in the rythm method scare Boshko slightly.
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In general she may be hinting that you need to say 'I love you' in a more obvious, sappier ,painful,way?
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Sounds about right. Any advice?
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How good is her English? Hopefully bad, as this isn't a good sign if she said what she meant to...
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She teaches english.
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October 17, 2003, 11:52
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A. Wasn't a suspicious tone of voice.
B. I didn't do anything bust-worthy (except have a cellphone whose ringer got turned off somehow and which has a korean interface that made it impossible to turn it back over a period in which she apparently called me several times).
C. If I did it is impossible for her to bust me if I did anything (due to me being 80 minutes by bus plus some on the subway from where she lives).
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As if any of that matters!
You did something you shouldn't of or didn't do something that you should of. Just face the music and dance.
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October 17, 2003, 11:53
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Remember the other week when she asked us what half Korean/half white kids look like? That and her absolute faith in the rythm method scare Boshko slightly.
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If you love her: start saving!
If you don't love her: start running!
If you're not sure: make up your mind. fast.
Also, don't take the advice of internet geeks.
You really should try and educate her about that rhythm method nonsense, though. I assume you already know that though.
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October 17, 2003, 11:54
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She teaches english.
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Oh, you're ****ed buddy. Good luck.
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October 17, 2003, 11:55
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"Also, don't take the advice of internet geeks. "
AMEN!
err...except for that part...
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October 17, 2003, 12:14
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Originally posted by Japher
You did something you shouldn't of or didn't do something that you should of. Just face the music and dance.
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Well I haven't done much of anything recently besides emit laryngitic croaks, so that leave's what I haven't done...
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If you love her: start saving!
If you don't love her: start running!
If you're not sure: make up your mind. fast.
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That's what I worried about.
Have only known her for a bit over a month
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Oh, you're ****ed buddy. Good luck.
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Looks like it, will give ya an update sunday night
Oh and Seeker when do you leave Korea? Gotta buy you some goodbye Cass when you head out
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October 17, 2003, 12:17
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so that leave's what I haven't done...
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Is it her birthday? your aniversary? Think hard because it might be an aniversary of something stupid that means a lot to her...
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October 17, 2003, 12:26
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ALERT: I go back to Vancouver Oct 25 (Yes that's next saturday)
Bottom line: Not only are they psycho, the school is falling apart financially and physically they probably won't pay up, the school could fold at any time (everyones salary has been 'late' not just mine).
Luckily I'm still making some money from private lessons.
I had been trying to share a room in a very sweet appartment shared by other sun-sang neem, but they rented it.
I could go to another school but I'm kinda burnt out for now, I'm going to go back for a few months, I may hit Korea or another country or go back to school or whatever.
POSSIBLE MEET TIMES: 9:45 tommorrow (probably late+ short notice), anytime sunday, or next Friday also 9:45PM, I teach a lesson 8:00 to 9:00 near Garak Market (40 mins from Itaewon).
Let's pick a REALLY REALLY obvious place to meet because I'm stupid. Outback, UN bar or somewhere. Reggae Pub is good too.
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October 17, 2003, 12:27
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One month... yikes
I have to say this: if the woman really is fishing for an "I love you" from you by saying "You have something to tell me" that would piss *me* off. I'm not you, so whatever. FP's point about advice from internet geeks stands. But for goodness sakes, whatever you do, don't ever
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October 17, 2003, 12:34
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Maybe she got her hair done or something... When ever they change their appearance they want your "honest" opinion
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October 17, 2003, 12:36
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Is it her birthday? your aniversary?
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Its not the day.
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9:45 tommorrow (probably late+ short notice), anytime sunday, or next Friday also 9:45PM, I teach a lesson 8:00 to 9:00 near Garak Market (40 mins from Itaewon).
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Saturday's possible since we're getting indonesian food for dinner (sweet sweet indonesian food) and should be in the general area afterwards. My last bus home (barring crashing on ondol) is at 8:10 PM on Sunday from gangbyeon, any good idea of stuff too do on a sunday afternoon, still don't know Seoul too well?
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One month... yikes
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I have to say this: if the woman really is fishing for an "I love you" from you by saying "You have something to tell me" that would piss *me* off.
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Ya. And one of the things I like most about her is that she's NEVER played any games with me.
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And she is also rather a bit of a HOTTTIE I must say....
And fun loving...
And nice personality...
Can't go wrong!
She sure loves dancing I wasn't watching last time did you guys have fun?
Or is dancing (or my weaving and staggering equivalent)something you want to cross off your 'to do' list?
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October 17, 2003, 12:43
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Originally posted by SlowwHand
Divorced twice by the same woman? I KNOW I'm right.
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Didn't get enough the first time around?
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October 17, 2003, 12:47
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If you love her: start saving!
If you don't love her: start running!
If you're not sure: make up your mind. fast.
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Yep. Sounds like this is the case. She's giving you a chance to tell her how much you love her, and then to tell you how much she loves you.
People who are passive aggressive operate in this fashion, it's an easy way to ask someone, do you love me, without having to ask, do you love me?
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October 17, 2003, 12:47
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Originally posted by Boshko
Oh and Seeker when do you leave Korea? Gotta buy you some goodbye Cass when you head out
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Cass is good but I liked Hite better.
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October 17, 2003, 12:50
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'Hite'
EDIT: I was going to post something irresponsible about American soldiers and their taste in beer, pubs, and women but I decided not to as a gentleman.
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Re: Translating Womanese
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Originally posted by Boshko
Any ideas? I'm pretty monumentally bad at this sort of thing.
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I think she sensed you had something on your mind that's bothering you. So speak up even if you thought you didn't want to burden her.
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October 17, 2003, 12:55
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Originally posted by Seeker
'Hite'
EDIT: I was going to post something irresponsible about American soldiers and their taste in beer, pubs, and women but I decided not to as a gentleman.
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Cass is good too. I also developed a strange taste for soju which is odd because the stuff tastes so bad.
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October 17, 2003, 13:07
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And she is also rather a bit of a HOTTTIE I must say....
And fun loving...
And nice personality...
Can't go wrong!
She sure loves dancing I wasn't watching last time did you guys have fun?
Or is dancing (or my weaving and staggering equivalent)something you want to cross off your 'to do' list?
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Exactly, couldn't have said it bettr myself I think my job would've driven me insane by now if it wasn't for her. That's why I'm trying to figure out what's up, I want this to work.
Seeker: Hmmmm, how about Helios at 10 PM Saturday? That's a good place for a few after-dinner beers.
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She's giving you a chance to tell her how much you love her, and then to tell you how much she loves you.
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And I'm not going to wax poetic over a crappy cellphone connection with some post-laryngitic croaking and long-week-at-work brain deadness adding to the fun. I do have my limits, and our first date was just a month ago for god's sake.
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Cass is good but I liked Hite better.
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You can tell the difference?
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I think she sensed you had something on your mind that's bothering you.
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Just my job, the schedule (and location) are a *****.
Time for to sleep now.
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October 17, 2003, 13:12
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Originally posted by Boshko
Just my job, the schedule (and location) are a *****.
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As I thought, something was bothering you.
Most women are very, very sensitive about these things.
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